“Mom, they don’t even know me and they come here to make me smile. That is just like what you do, and I want to help too.” Jaiden Henry, eight years old and the son of Chicago’s 1st Platoon Leader Kim McGraw, had fallen ill and was temporarily hospitalized. To his amazement however, volunteers kept coming by to keep his spirits up.
He has since worked hard alongside his mother to inspire others to do the same.
On the rare occasion that 50 women gather together in the military, their male counterparts hover anxiously outside the room, wondering what conspiracies they must be plotting within. So you can imagine the awe and great personal fulfillment I felt when 52 women veterans from The Mission Continues – representing all five branches of the military – came together for the first time in April to share stories, to laugh, and to learn.
Last weekend in New Orleans, close to 60 women veterans from all over the country gathered to discuss everything from how to get out of debt, to owning your identity as a woman veteran, to starting a business, to making sure you get the full range of women’s health services offered by Veterans Affairs.
The summit was filled with valuable lessons, professional networking, and leadership training. Attendee Meosha Thomas applauded the summit, saying, “weekends like this help change the narrative of what women veterans look like.”
A member of the Los Angeles 1st Platoon breaking down walls for the Stevenson Project.
We are days away from the inaugural Women Veterans Leadership Summit in New Orleans. Soon 50 women leaders from the Mission Continues network will gather to share insights, challenges, and wisdom with other women “in the trenches” of service and business. Today we are taking a closer look at what inspires and drives our peers to be leaders in their communities. For Army veteran and Service Platoon Member Nicole Thomas, attending the summit is a unique opportunity to connect with like-minded peers. Continue reading “Gearing up for Women Veterans Leadership Summit”
I knew there was more to life than what my small town had to offer. I wanted to see things I read about in school books and escape the small town mentality of being trapped as a product of my environment. I thought college could be my way out, but my parents couldn’t afford to send me. So I joined the Navy, and eventually retired with 20 years of Service.
When I separated from the military in 2013, I found the most challenging part was identifying and finding my purpose again. My only child had just graduated from high school, so I felt my purpose of being a needed mother was gone. I was going through a divorce, so I felt my purpose of being a wife was now gone as well. I was empty and depressed.
They are daughters, sisters, neighbors and friends. They are mothers.
They are also soldiers, airmen, Marines and sailors called upon to serve during the longest period of conflict our country has ever known – and not unique only because of the duration.
More than ever before, women have served under fire in pitched battles in Iraq and flown combat sorties over dangerous Afghan valleys. They’re deployed in humanitarian aid missions across the world and protect the nation here at home. They serve the same as men, and too often, they sacrifice the same as men.
Liz Skilbeck grew up listening to stories of her grandfather’s service as a U.S. Navy Captain. Although she tried out college she couldn’t shake the urge to enlist. In 2001, she raised her right hand and served nearly four years as an explosive ordnance disposal technician in the Air Force. Her position took her on Secret Service missions all over the Middle East before she was medically discharged in 2005.
On a biting winter afternoon a little over four years ago, I flipped a switch, just as I had done a hundred times before in Afghanistan, and the whining of the hydraulic pump kicked on. Lowering the ramp was always a slow process, but this time it felt like an eternity. No words could have prepared me for the two columns of Marines I saw lined up at the rear of the aircraft. The men belonged to a unit that would suffer a large number of casualties in the coming months while fighting valiantly in an important village. As the somber procession of Marines carried the flag-draped coffin towards me, I gave my slow salute and they marched silently up into the rear of the aircraft.
For some, Memorial Day is just that—a day. One that people envision as the cause for a long weekend of summer kick-off celebrations. But for those who have served in the military, Memorial Day extends well beyond 24 hours at the end of May. Remembrance is constant. Every day we carry with us the brave men and women who have sacrificed their lives in defense of our nation. Their gifts to us shaped who we have become, and we live our lives to honor their memory.
Back on that aircraft, I did not know this Marine’s name but I knew he was willing to sacrifice everything for what he believed in. He did not fight out of hatred for what was in front of him, but rather out of loyalty to the Marines on either side, and to protect all those behind him. He embodied selfless service to others, and like him, there have been many laid to rest far before their time. Since returning home, I have witnessed more friends buried with full military honors than I would like to count.
Part of my difficult transition back into civilian life was reflecting on the experiences I had and the brothers I had lost, but I began to use my grief to motivate me to work harder and strive for better. I vowed to keep their spirit and memory alive through my actions. I learned that my service did not have to end. My military background, along with the legacy of post-9/11 veterans, provides a unique opportunity to accomplish so much.
We have our own stories of challenges and success at The Mission Continues. My legacy of service continues in the newly formed Los Angeles 2nd Service Platoon, which redeploys veterans to serve at-risk communities in South Central LA. I also mentor student veterans as they strive to learn new skills after service In the fall, I will continue my education at law school, which will help develop the tools I need to serve my community in more impactful ways.
I do these things for the living. Too many do not have the chance. I wake every day with purpose—one to live my life to the fullest, help those in need and keep my head held high knowing I am part of something greater: a new generation of warriors and leaders who continue to served their country courageously, just like those who came before us.
It is vital that we make an effort to reach out and support the loved ones of those who have given up their lives, as well as our fellow veterans who have returned home and face challenges reintegrating back into society. In the process, we should share stories of courage and selflessness of those we have lost along the way, and encourage our fellow Americans to take a moment to reflect on the true meaning of this day. Side by side with fellow veterans, as well as with members of the community, we can inspire and create change through positive and meaningful avenues.
This weekend, may you stand tall for those who cannot, in a moment of silence honoring all the men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice so that we can live our lives in freedom, seize innumerable opportunities. And continue to do great things—together.
Jess Egan is a Marine Corps veteran who served five years active duty as a KC-130J Crew Chief, including an 11 month tour in Afghanistan. She currently serves as a squad leader in the newly formed Los Angeles 2nd Service Platoon. She will attend Pepperdine University’s School of Law this fall.
We invite alumni of The Mission Continues Fellowship Program to speak at each pre-fellowship orientation. Fellow Alumna Brandy Baxter addressed the newest class of Mission Continues Fellows at their orientation in May of 2014.
“My Mission Continues Fellowship partnered me with a non-profit organization that teaches financial education to families with limited financial resources. I had started teaching financial classes at our last duty station, so this was a perfect match for me.